Left-Brain Dominance …

Intuition is blocked by left-brain dominance.
Dr. Bob Nozik

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I read this quote and my insides went OMG! Yes! Makes so much sense. You see, I spent my childhood trying to achieve excellence in school. I spent 30 years working in a very detail-oriented job. In other words, my left-brain has been used, developed, celebrated! Even my right-brain creativity as musician and artist has been strongly controlled by left-brain perfectionism.

Intuition? Well, it is coming alive as I invite my thinking left-brain to pause.

Why does it matter?

Messages from our intuition are powerful! The intuition sees with all our senses – including the so-called sixth sense. The information we receive when we listen with our entire being and we listen to all that is within and around us is so much more complete than our tiny left-brain can fathom.

Now, this is not a put-down to our left-brain. It is simply a reminder that that left-brain, the thinking part of our being, is just one source, potentially a very intelligent and knowing source. Sometimes, it is the right and perfect tool for the task at hand.

Sometimes, it isn’t.

If you, like me, have focused strongly on left-brain knowing, consider the gift of developing the rest of your intelligence. Give your left-brain a rest. Try a daily practice that could include one of these:

  • meditation
  • play
  • whole body movement
  • time in nature
  • sitting still and observing with soft focus

Then, as you move in your life, go just a little bit slower. Notice messages from your body, your heart, the world around you.

What is your intuition telling you now?

 

Who do you need to BE?

CutToTheCore

Bring to mind a situation, relationship, belief that both challenges you and that you are ready to experience shift around.  

Got it?  Now:

 

  • What more can you say more about that?
  • What do you want?
  • What is the deeper truth here?
  • What needs to wake up in you in order to bring this truth to light?
  • Who do you need to BE in order to achieve this?

Fully Alive?

It costs so much to be a full human being that there are very few who have the enlightenment, or the courage, to pay the price. One has to abandon altogether the search for security and reach out to the risk of living with both arms. One has to embrace the world like a lover, and yet demand no easy return of love. One has to accept pain as a condition of existence. One has to court doubt and darkness as the pain of knowing. One needs a will stubborn in conflict, but apt always to the total acceptance of every consequence of living and dying. — Morris West, The Shoes of the Fisherman

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As I typed and reread the quote just now, I realize there is a LOT there to digest. My suspicion is that some of you want to run away from being fully alive if this is what it means! Others of you find certain pieces of the quote resonant. I am pausing in this moment with this piece:

One has to abandon altogether the search for security and reach out to the risk of living with both arms.

Security for me in this context includes:

  • knowing that I’ll “succeed” and “you” will like and appreciate my offering
  • knowing that I’ll have the energy to do “it” when the time comes
  • knowing that I won’t make a fool of myself
  • knowing …

Reaching out to the risk of living with both arms includes:

  • letting go of the crutches of over-planning, over-practicing, perfectionistic tendencies and trusting my heart to lead
  • letting go of concern or worry about what you’ll think of me
  • letting go of my definition of “success” and allowing “failure” to show up
  • letting go of the need to know and trusting I’ll have what I need when I need it
  • letting go …

Perhaps you are drawn to a different piece of the quotation. So I ask you:

What resonates in you?
What does it mean to you?

How might these ideas render you more FULLY ALIVE?

 

What do you argue for?

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“Argue for your limits and sure enough they’re yours”. Richard Bach

Think about this. How often do you say:

I couldn’t do that …
I don’t know how …
The thought of doing that scares me …

Guess what? You’ll never be able  to do it, you’ll never know how, if you never try! Keep on affirming that you can’t and it will become your reality. Or … consider a new message and argue for possibility!

I’ve never done it, but I’m willing to try!
I don’t think I know how but I’m sure I could learn!
I notice that I’m a bit scared to consider that …
but I’m willing to interpret that fear as excitement …
and do it anyway!

Just try it. Try it on something small first. Be sure to take the time to notice how it feels to “do it anyway”.

What’s happens when you argue for possibility?

If it’s really that important …

CutToTheCore

Bring to mind a situation, relationship, belief that both challenges you and that you are ready to experience shift around.  

Got it?  Now:

 

  • How important, on a scale of 1-100, is a resolution?
  • What is more important?
  • What makes “that” more important than the issue we’re talking about?
  • Is the original issue still worth looking at?
  • What’s your first step?
  • What does that look like?
  • What stops you from going there?